Monday, April 20, 2009

More Patience



Ern is becoming more patience for us to attend to her. Maybe she has grown up...or she knows Sean need more attention.

When both kids need to be attended at the same time, we have to give priority to Sean if there is one of us available. So, we need to tell Ern to wait for a little while by telling her the reason. To our surprise, she accepted what we told her and really waited patiently.

I was touched but at the same time, feel a bit bad to see that. We used to give her 100% but come to think of it now, we are not giving her 50% at times! *Sigh*

Ern, we are proud of you!!

2 comments:

Anggie's Journal said...

GOOD girl to Ern ... :P

CheahWei said...

Yup, same path and feelings. Don't feel bad and stress over it. Make it up with her some other time.
There are times when I know Shan doesn't really require my attention, I'd switch over and give Yan more time. She knew the switch and appreciate the attention. U need to take her side and give priority to her sometimes to balance out. Ern "grew up" and matured quicker than anticipated but keep in mind - she's still a little girl at heart.